Who are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes? Groucho Marx
Scene 1: Rural town department store circa 1970, before security devices
Male Shopper: He folder the sweater he was thinking of buying and with direct eye contact with me he stuffed it inside his parka, zipped the jacket up to his neck and with one more glance at me walked out of the store.
Store Clerk (me) panic thoughts: Stop him! Wait…he is over 6’ tall, at least 250 and is the star football player in our small college town…ok, then tell the store manager quick! No, wait…he is this shoplifter’s uncle. My manager is NOT going to like me accusing a family member of theft. My word against his….this guy is going to get away with it.
On that day I vowed to never again compromise my values and to never again be so weak. Wrong is wrong and theft is wrong.
We have all been there, faced with a moral dilemma and sometimes feeling powerless we fold to acceptance. However, most companies today have a vehicle for us to voice our concerns. We can seek out the best avenue in our companies and ask for complete confidentiality if and when we are aware of wrong doing in our workplace. Please understand, I am not advocating running a muck and looking for every single thing that YOU think is wrong. Being too quick to judge is as bad as watching a guy steal a sweater. Just keep in mind, sometimes things are not what they seem. Generally accepted business practices and a good corporate ethics policy will guide you in telling right from wrong at work.
Most people do the right thing or are thinking they are doing the right thing. Sometimes it is a gentle word from a co-worker correcting a simple blunder that will change a person’s work habits to the good and improve their skills for the long term. Even workplace discussions about ethics will evoke renewed understanding in people who have before fostered an illusory sense of piety because they have not yet faced themselves and their tricky ways. And as always we should continue to look upon our fellow workers with love and understanding even when we ‘think’ there is something amiss. Sometimes it is “that willing suspension of disbelief for the moment, which constitutes poetic faith” that we need to apply to allow correction in the workplace. Have faith in your fellow workers that they are an important ingredient in the renewal of ethics in the business world.
*That willing suspension of disbelief for the moment, which constitutes poetic faith Samuel Taylor Coleridge
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